Let's face it, ladies. A good foreplay session can make all the difference in having a great time in the bedroom.
Foreplay is one of the best parts of sex! The anticipation, the teasing, the build-up—what's not to love?!
What happens when your partner isn't quite as keen on foreplay as you are? Don't worry. We all have different levels of comfort and excitement regarding sex.
Here are a few tips on how to get your partner as excited for foreplay as you are.
Be Confident In Your Desires
The number one rule for getting your partner in the mood for foreplay is to be confident in expressing your desires. Let them know what turns you on and what excites you—chances are they will want to please you in those ways.
When talking about these topics, use "I statements" so that they know exactly how you feel and can respond accordingly. If they need more guidance, don't be afraid to provide examples or show them what turns you on!
Experiment With Sex Toys
It's natural for long-standing couples to feel like the sex is getting repetitive. After all, trying new things is often easier said than done.
If you want your partner to love foreplay as much as you do, then trying something new together is key. Adding sex toys to foreplay can sometimes mean you both cum even before sex. Sometimes, this can be even more invigorating because it feels like a euphoric rush.
Don't worry if things don't go perfectly the first time; just have fun and keep experimenting until something clicks!
Don't Be Afraid To Take Charge
If there's one thing that almost always turns people on during foreplay, it's confidence. Don't be afraid to take charge and show your partner that you can pleasure them. Trust me, they'll appreciate it!
Taking charge doesn't mean being forceful or aggressive; it just means showing that you are comfortable with yourself and can enjoy yourself in any sexual situation.
Teasing is one of the best ways to get your partner in the mood for more. Start by sending flirty text messages or even use physical contact during the day, like brushing up against them while cooking dinner or lightly touching their arm while watching TV. This kind of teasing will build anticipation and get them excited for later on.
Wear Your Fantasies
Honey, if you don't have a way with words, do it with lingerie. Expose your wildest fantasies by wearing a lingerie set that awakens your inner sex goddess.
If you're wondering how sexy lingerie can make your partner beg for foreplay, let us break it down.
Here's what you need to do:
- Put on a killer set,
- Light some candles,
- Tell your partner to sit in the middle of the bed or on a chair,
Foreplay is an important step in sex because it allows us to explore our partners with greater depth and understanding.
We learn more about our partners' bodies through sensual touch and communication, which can create stronger intimacy between two lovers.
Who doesn't love a sexual cat-and-mouse game with their lover?
Author: Ivana Zoric | www.ivanacreative.com